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How To Discover Who Loves You More: Your Current Or Future Boss?

November 21, 2022 Val Wright

Is love too strong of a word? Have you met people who tell you how much they LOVE their job? Love at work between a company and its employees can be expressed in many ways, but reading this you will have a gut reaction in your stomach when considering the question: who loves you more your existing boss or the future one you have yet to meet?

Often executives need an impartial ear to tell them if they are thinking about this right. Your mentors, your peers in other companies, prior bosses and external experts can help with being a soundboard for you as you think about your current role and when or if you should move next.  

Should you be nervous or more confident than ever? Especially when tech giants are laying off employees including Amazon, Google, Meta and Cisco? - I don’t believe you should be more nervous, but I do advise you dedicating time to reflect and plan by evaluating your network, your personal valuation, and not letting your own network become dehydrated, so they are there for you when you need them. 

Start with this important question:

Do you feel in demand and satisfied with the rewards and recognition you receive in your current role and company?

Your valuation is like a stock valuation or share price of a company and this will go up and down throughout your career. 

In fact, you have two valuations, an internal valuation and an external valuation. Depending what your valuations are depends what action you need to take. 

Consider your internal valuation right now. This is determined by your compensation, your promotion history, your exposure and access to senior executives, your involvement in strategic projects, the feedback you receive from those who can influence your career. Rate it now, is it high? Is it correct? Could it be a lot better? 

Now think about your external valuation. This is determined by your external reputation in your industry, how often the head hunters call, how frequently you are asked to speak at events, in the media on your area of expertise. Rate it now, is it high? Are you a best kept secret? (I know not all companies like and encourage external involvement but your personal valuation is still impacted by this) Is your reputation outside the company stronger than it is inside the company? 

Depending on where you are in your career and depending on where you have focused your time and energy, those two valuations may be quite different. 

The question for you to answer is where do you want to spend your time and energy to increase your valuation? Internally or externally or maybe a little of both?

A divisional president that I was working with called me, exasperated. He said, ‘Val, I cannot believe he got that job. He should never have got that job. I worked with him three years ago, and he was mediocre at best!’

As we discussed it, we realized that while the promoted executive’s achievements weren’t that great, he did excel at showcasing his achievements with his CEO, his board and externally. Talking more with my client, we discovered that his own specific focus had been solely concentrated internally to the detriment of his external reputation. That was where he decided to spend is time improving those relationships. 

How well you promote your achievements externally can affect your company valuation, who wants to invest in you, which strategic partners will want to do business with you and how rapidly you can grow. 

Your external reputation can also drive up your internal valuation. This happened with an executive I worked with who was able to secure prominent media interviews and she was asked to speak at external events that were then shared internally. As a result, she became more well known internally and with the board of directors which ultimately led to her getting promoted across multiple divisions driving up both her Internal and External Personal Valuation.

I’d love to hear how high your Internal and External Valuations are and which you will be spending time to increase.


Dedicated to growing your business,

Val

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15 Most Popular Questions Successful Executives Ask Me

November 14, 2022 Val Wright
Word that work

Over the last 5 years I’ve provided executive advisory sessions to attendees of the Digital Ascendant and Retail Ascendant executive communities during their gatherings in Silicon Valley and New York. During their events I get to meet for 30min with an executive and provide advice on any aspect of their business and career.

I’ve completed over 100 of these formal advisory sessions and many more spontaneous sessions over the meals, field trips to members innovation labs, and entertainment experiences that are part of the events. All meticulously created by founder Susan McDermid and her brilliant team. 

As I was writing Words That Work, I decided to incorporate the top questions the most successful executives ask me both at the Ascendant Network events and my broader work and experiences. 

Top 15 questions the most successful executives ask me:
 

  1. How do I encourage truth telling? 

  2. What is the fastest way to deliver results as a newly appointed executive? 

  3. How can I influence my board meetings to be more productive? 

  4. How do I improve external media and investor relationships? 

  5. How do I set the performance bar for my executive team at the right height? 

  6. How do I know people are telling me the truth? 

  7. How can I help my team think bigger? 

  8. How can I test radical, bold moonshots? 

  9. How do I change my habits rapidly? 

  10. How do I upgrade my network to the right altitude of peers? 

  11. How do I rapidly evaluate and change out the right people on my executive team? 

  12. How do I understand and live my true purpose? 

  13. How do I help those around me explore new ideas? 

  14. How do I say what I mean concisely? 

  15. What are the characteristics of the most successful executives?


These top 15 questions became the backbone of Words That Work. 

Which numbers are of most interest to you to learn more about?


I’d love to hear from you. 


Dedicated to growing your business,

Val

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Why This Sport Is Called The Beautiful Game

November 7, 2022 Val Wright
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Ryan Reynolds and Rob McElhenney would be envious of the story that played out at LAFCs Banc of California on Saturday at the MLS Cup Final LAFC vs. the Philadelphia Union.  It could have been a script from any Hollywood movie!

Reynolds and McElhenney developed a love for the beautiful game when they bought Welsh Football Club Wrexham AFC in February 2021. If you haven’t watched the Welcome to Wrexham documentary you are missing out! Ted Lasso has nothing on the heart warming show about the history and present day of the former mining town along with the players, staff, and fans of Wrexham AFC.  

LA resident McElhenney was even at the LAFC game on Saturday along with the Biebers, Magic Johnson, and many other celebrities. 

So what made this game so beautiful? (- apart from the fact LAFC won on penalties after 3-3 at extra time) It was the so-good-they-must-be-from-a-cheesy-movie moments that made this game so beautiful:

Knowing when to switch out the right players
It was a bold move to take Captain Carlos Vela off the pitch and bring on Gareth Bale.  But when Bale scored the crucial equalizer to bring the game to penalties that move well and truly paid off! He’s only played a handful of minutes since LAFC signed him but he scored right when it mattered. 

Being ready even if you think you might not be needed. 
It’s the stuff Hollywood movie storylines are made of…when substitute goalkeeper woke up on Saturday could he have ever believed that he would win the MVP Most Valuable Player award - against his former club and home town team the Philadelphia Union too? It’s rare for a substitute goalie to be needed but when Maxime Crepeau broke his leg after a foul that also earned him a red card, it was time for LAFC John McCarthy to take over. McCarthy saved two penalties and won the MVP player award. 

Keeping your ego in check, especially when others make mistakes
You read a lot about egotistical footballers and sports players, but keeping that ego in check isn’t always as simple as it sounds. LAFC’s Kellyn Acosta showed everyone how it is done at a pre match press conference. A Philadelphia reporter asked him what the vibe was like in Philly with the World Series and the Eagles undefeated, (even though he had an LAFC badge next to his name plate!!) Acosta handled the question perfectly, first trying to gently reposition the question, but as the reporter persisted with his question, Acosta told him “I don’t play for Philly, it is exciting for them I guess…” I happened to met Acosta’s Grandmother at the game and I shared with her how proud she can be of her grandson not humiliating the reporter and just calmly correcting him. 

Random fact:
Pelé made the phrase “The Beautiful Game” popular, but it was originally coined by English commentator Stuart Hall as early as 1958. 

Maybe you are reading this from outside the US and can’t believe that an MLS game could be this exciting. I challenge you to watch the highlights and decide then. 

Maybe you are reading this from inside the US and can’t believe I am calling soccer football, but my British upbringing makes that hard for me to adjust to!

Cheers to a great week.  


Dedicated to growing your business, 

Val

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