Honoring 70 Years Of Service

Can you imagine being in a job for 70 years?

Yesterday billions around the world watched as my home country laid Queen Elizabeth II to rest.

Whether you are a fan of the British Monarchy or not, the dedication and service to her country from the age of 26 to 96 is something to be marveled at.

If ever you wanted to understand the true definition of pomp and circumstance, the last 48hours in Britain gives you a visual explanation like no other. (I recommend going to the bbc.com website and watching the clips of the livestream with British commentary)

The precision of traditions.

The outpouring of love from a nation.

The 10mile queue to file past the Queen's coffin during her four-and-a-half-day lying-in-state at Westminster Hall.

The gathering of world leaders arriving on buses.

The largest global protection operation ever undertaken by the metropolitan police.

There was a lot to marvel at watching from afar.

With all change in leadership, now the question on the minds of many will be:

What will change next?

Dedicated to growing your business,

Val

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Quick Advice For How To Spend More Time With Your Favorite Friends

You can be around people and still be lonely. 

You can rejoice in quiet alone time and still crave company. 

You can be in company and still feel like your social needs aren’t being met. 

As you ascend in your career finding friends who just “get” you becomes harder. 

Executives often tell me that they struggle to socialize and find friends that aren’t extended work colleagues. 

It isn’t just middle schoolers and high schoolers who find it hard to make friends, the older you are the tougher it gets. The more senior you are the more painful it is. 

Which is why holding on to those friends who you hold dear to your heart is so important. Especially after three years of jarring lockdowns that shook up any rituals, hangouts, and routine socializing. 

Auto-piloting your Social life is one of the most rewarding pieces of advice I can share that really works. 

• Add social connections to your work trips. - Arrive on work trips a day early and either take some personal space time or let those you have had a past connection with know that you are arriving early and suggest a pre event dinner or coffee. This works well for those you previously have worked with or those who live in the city you are visiting. (LinkedIn is great for location searching your connections)

• First Monday of the month dinner dates with your friends - I started this with a dear group of friends in Seattle eight years ago and even though several of us have moved cities, we still gather for vacations, dinners, and have had a continuous text chat that kept us all going through job moves, personal challenges, and the last three years!

• Reinstate those weekends away. - I’m just back from four days in Palm Springs with some close friends and it was pure bliss! In my first book Thoughtfully Ruthless I outline how every executive needs a Sensibly Selfish Charter where you commit to yourself your me time, couple time, family time, friends time, and pampering time. Many executives I work with have told me how they need to bring back these habits and routines.

To spend time with friends who energize you and inspire you sometimes you have to let go of those around you who don’t hold you up and support you. It’s why I dedicated a whole chapter in Thoughtfully Ruthless called “Divorce Your Friends” - it might sound brutal but some of you will be nodding right now about those you need to spend less time with or no time with. 

Enjoy your reconnections with friends! It’s worth it.

Dedicated to growing your business,

Val

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Seattle’s Sculpture Park is a spectacular sight

I was lucky that I got to watch it be built brick by brick, bulldozer scoop by bulldozer scoop. 

Our apartment overlooked the whole park, which gave me the perfect vantage point. I’ll admit that I was a little jealous of the workers because at the time I was working in corporate life where it wasn’t always easy to see the immediate results of your work! I longed to stand alongside the groups of workers that gathered every morning in a circle to be told their jobs for the day by the supervisor. I used to marvel as I would see their tremendous progress at the end of each day as the sculpture park began to take shape with its winding paths, slopes, greenhouses, dramatic buildings and bridges. 

The closest I ever got to similar work was when we had just bought our first home in England and we decided to design and build our own outdoor patio and garden. From mixing cement to building walls, laying gravel and building flower beds the work was all ours. It was so satisfying to see the final result. (Though luckily back gardens in England are pretty small!)

Today is Labor Day in the US. A day where, since the 1800s, the contributions and achievements of American workers are celebrated. Usually with family and friends gathering with trips to the beach, pool, and parks. 

Whichever part of the world you are reading this, take a moment to appreciate, and thank the contributions of those workers around you. 

Jim Annes, VP Digital Operations at Ingram Micro published a brilliant piece yesterday about Labor Day and what it means to him. I loved his ideas particularly this part..

So what I propose is this. On Labor Day, set aside some of your time to do some labor. And then set aside extra time to make a few additional trips to Lowes or Home Depot as you make mistakes. Measure something twice and cut it once. Use a lumber crayon and square. Get dirty, frustrated and embrace the feeling of determination as you refuse to stop until you have done it right.

It may give you an appreciation for what labor is. It may make you think twice about the who and how of the next purchase you make. Pass out some cold bottles of water or cups of coffee and say thanks to the team fixing a powerline, busted main or building your retaining wall. Because a lot of work that benefits us all is being done by very few. 

My daughters spent their whole Sunday afternoon and evening building their new desks, chairs, and bedroom furniture. They now know the different types of screwdrivers, the value of carefully reading instructions to save having to start again!, and that manual work is hard work!

How are you sharing what Labor Day means to you? 

Fascinating News Roundup

• Do you know why your front line workers are quitting? - if only Air Canada would have listed to this supervisor before he quit after 7 years.

• Now you really need to get back to the office. - will this time it be fully enforced? The companies that are taking the flexibility back.

• Book Discounts: Kogan Page has all of their books 25% off until Sept 2nd. - Including two of mine! Rapid Growth Done Right and Words That Work use code FLASH25

Dedicated to growing your business,

Val

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